I have compassion for the many moms whose daughters live far away, and seldom are able to visit. I feel sadness to know I won't be at Meagan's wedding, but trust someday I shall be able to meet her beloved Jaime. Thank God for photos on facebook, so I have a sense of how happy she is living in Chile, enjoying her work, her unfolding relationship with Jaime and his very large extended family.
The girls are so close too, a blessing for both of them. Their parents have done a marvelous job of giving them a strong foundation, and blessing their wings too. It touches my heart to see the joy in Linda and Warren's faces whenever they have the chance to be with the girls. They are a very close-knit family, no matter how far apart they live. Eugene will always be "home" for Lara and Meagan.
Do all birthmothers feel so blessed to watch their children given to new parents grow into remarkable, confident, talented young men or women? Probably not, especially if they harbor resentment or regret for their decision to give their child a new home with new parents. For all of us, it's been precious, and brought much joy into many lives. Thy know they are loved by many folks, and have large networks of friends who stay in touch and miss them. What more could a mom wish for her adult children-good health, loyal friends, confidence in the present and future because they've grown up with much love, and wise counsel from parents and others when facing life's challenges.
How sweet to hear them laughing, inquisitive, enjoying their busy lives. I am so glad to still be included, able to share their joy. Blessings and love to you both as you journey into your futures!
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